Abstract
The aim of this paper was to present a literature review on sexual assertiveness (SA), on factors and life experiences that are associated with its development, and on its function in human sexuality. It was found that demographic variables (e.g., age, education, gender), sexual experiences (e.g., type of partnership, sexual victimization), psychosexual issues (e.g., sexual functioning, body self-esteem, emotion regulation, resourcefulness) and cultural factors (e.g., sexual scripts, gender stereotypes) might positively or negatively contribute to SA. Furthermore, the outcomes of SA for both individuals and intimate relationships are presented. Based on this review, it is concluded that although SA could be fostered by training programs, cultural factors still withhold many individuals from reaching a satisfactory level of SA. Finally, recommendations about how to further the study of SA are presented.
References
Arciniega, M., Anderson, T., Tovar-Blanc, Z., & Terrence, T. (2008). Toward a Fuller Conception of Machismo: Development of a Traditional. Journal of Counseling Psychology, 55(1), 19-33.
Auslander, B. A., Baker, J., & Short, M. B. (2012). The Connection between Young Women’s Body Esteem and Sexual Assertiveness. Journal of Pediatric and Adolescent Gynecology, 25(2), 127–130. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpag.2011.11.008
Auslander, B. A., Perfect, M. M., Succop, P. A., & Rosenthal, S. L. (2007). Perceptions of Sexual Assertiveness among Adolescent Girls: Initiation, Refusal, and Use of Protective Behaviors. Journal of Pediatric and Adolescent Gynecology, 20(3), 157–162. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpag.2007.03.093
Bay-Cheng, L. Y., & Eliseo-Arras, R. K. (2008). The Making of Unwanted Sex: Gendered and Neoliberal Norms in College Women’s Unwanted Sexual Experiences. The Journal of Sex Research, 45(4), 386–397. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490802398381
Beres, M. (2010). Sexual miscommunication? Untangling assumptions about sexual communication between casual sex partners. Culture, Health & Sexuality, 12(1), 1–14.
Bourdeau, B., Thomas, V. K., & Long, J. K. (2008). Latino Sexual Styles: Developing a Nuanced Understanding of Risk. The Journal of Sex Research, 45(1), 71–81. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490701845185
Castillo, L. G., Perez, F. V., Castillo, R., & Ghosheh, M. R. (2010). Construction and initial validation of the Marianismo Beliefs Scale. Counselling Psychology Quarterly, 23(2), 163–175. https://doi.org/10.1080/09515071003776036
Fetterolf, J. C., & Sanchez, D. T. (2015). The costs and benefits of perceived sexual agency for men and women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 44(4), 961–970.
Gambrill, E. D., & Richey, C. A. (1975). An assertion inventory for use in assessment and research. Behavior Therapy, 6(4), 550–561. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0005-7894(75)80013-X
Goicolea, I., Torres, M. S., Edin, K., & Öhman, A. (2012). When Sex is Hardly About Mutual Pleasure: Dominant and Resistant Discourses on Sexuality and its Consequences for Young People’s Sexual Health. International Journal of Sexual Health, 24(4), 303–317. https://doi.org/10.1080/19317611.2012.715121
Gratz, K. L., & Roemer, L. (2004). Multidimensional Assessment of Emotion Regulation and Dysregulation: Development, Factor Structure, and Initial Validation of the Difficulties in Emotion Regulation Scale. Journal of Psychopathology and Behavioral Assessment, 26(1), 41–54. https://doi.org/10.1023/B:JOBA.0000007455.08539.94
Greene, K., & Faulkner, S. L. (2005). Gender, Belief in the Sexual Double Standard, and Sexual Talk in Heterosexual Dating Relationships. Sex Roles, 53(3–4), 239–251. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-005-5682-6
Hirst, J. (2008). Developing sexual competence? Exploring strategies for the provision of effective sexualities and relationships education. Sex Education, 8(4), 399–413. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681810802433929
Humphreys, T. P., & Kennett, D. J. (2010). The reliability and validity of instruments supporting the sexual self-control model. The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality; Toronto, 19(1/2), 1–13.
Impett, E. A., Schooler, D., & Tolman, D. L. (2006). To Be Seen and Not Heard: Femininity Ideology and Adolescent Girls’ Sexual Health. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 35(2), 129–142. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-005-9016-0
Kan, M. L., & Cares, A. C. (2006). From "friends with benefits" to "going steady": new directions in understanding romance and sex in adolescence and emerging adulthood. En A. C. Crouter, & A. Booth (Eds.), Romance and Sex in Adolescence and Emerging Adulthood, risks and opportunities (pp. 241-256). New York, London: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.
Kelley, E. L., Orchowski, L. M., & Gidycz, C. A. (2016). Sexual victimization among college women: Role of sexual assertiveness and resistance variables. Psychology of Violence, 6(2), 243–252. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0039407
Kennett, D. J., Humphreys, T. P., & Schultz, K. E. (2012). Sexual resourcefulness and the impact of family, sex education, media and peers. Sex Education, 12(3), 351–368. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681811.2011.615624
Kitzinger, C., & Frith, H. (1999). Just Say No? The Use of Conversation Analysis in Developing a Feminist Perspective on Sexual Refusal. Discourse & Society, 10(3), 293–316. https://doi.org/10.1177/0957926599010003002
Leclerc, B., Bergeron, S., Brassard, A., Bélanger, C., Steben, M., & Lambert, B. (2015). Attachment, Sexual Assertiveness, and Sexual Outcomes in Women with Provoked Vestibulodynia and Their Partners: A Mediation Model. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 44(6), 1561–1572. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-014-0295-1
Livingston, J. A., Testa, M., & VanZile-Tamsen, C. (2007). The Reciprocal Relationship Between Sexual Victimization and Sexual Assertiveness. Violence Against Women, 13(3), 298–313. https://doi.org/10.1177/1077801206297339
Loshek, E., & Terrell, H. K. (2014). The Development of the Sexual Assertiveness Questionnaire (SAQ): A Comprehensive Measure of Sexual Assertiveness for Women. The Journal of Sex Research, 0(0), 1–11. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2014.944970
Manago, A. M., Ward, L. M., & Aldana, A. (2015). The Sexual Experience of Latino Young Adults in College and Their Perceptions of Values About Sex Communicated by Their Parents and Friends. Emerging Adulthood, 3(1), 14–23. https://doi.org/10.1177/2167696814536165
Manago, A. M., Ward, L. M., Lemm, K. M., Reed, L., & Seabrook, R. (2015). Facebook Involvement, Objectified Body Consciousness, Body Shame, and Sexual Assertiveness in College Women and Men. Sex Roles, 72(1–2), 1–14. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-014-0441-1
Manlove, J., Franzetta, K., Ryan, S., & Moore, K. (2006). Adolescent Sexual Relationships, contraceptive consistency, and pregnancy prevention approaches. En A. C. Crouter, & A. Booth (Eds.), Romance and Sex in Adolescence and Emergind Adulthood, risks and opportunities (p. 181-212). New York, London: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.
McNicoll, G., Corsini-Munt, S., Rosen, N. O., McDuff, P., & Bergeron, S. (2016). Sexual Assertiveness Mediates the Associations Between Partner Facilitative Responses and Sexual Outcomes in Women With Provoked Vestibulodynia. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 0(0), 1–15. https://doi.org/10.1080/0092623X.2016.1230806
Ménard, A. D., & Offman, A. (2009). The interrelationships between sexual self-esteem, sexual assertiveness and sexual satisfaction. The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality; Toronto, 18(1/2), 35–45.
Morokoff, P. J., Quina, K., Harlow, L. L., Whitmire, L., Grimley, D. M., Gibson, P. R., & Burkholder, G. J. (1997). Sexual Assertiveness Scale (SAS) for women: Development and validation. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 73(4), 790–804. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.73.4.790
Morokoff, P. J., Redding, C. A., Harlow, L. L., Cho, S., Rossi, J. S., Meier, K. S., Brown-Peterside, P. (2009). Associations of Sexual Victimization, Depression, and Sexual Assertiveness with Unprotected Sex: A Test of the Multifaceted Model of HIV Risk Across Gender. Journal of Applied Biobehavioral Research, 14(1), 30–54. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1751-9861.2009.00039.x
Noar, S. M., Carlyle, K., & Cole, C. (2006). Why Communication Is Crucial: Meta-Analysis of the Relationship Between Safer Sexual Communication and Condom Use. Journal of Health Communication, 11(4), 365–390. https://doi.org/10.1080/10810730600671862
Noar, S. M., Morokoff, P. J., & Harlow, L. L. (2002). Condom Negotiation in Heterosexually Active Men and Women: Development and Validation of a Condom Influence Strategy Questionnaire. Psychology & Health, 17(6), 711–735. https://doi.org/10.1080/0887044021000030580
Onuoha, F. N., & Munakata, T. (2005). Correlates of Adolescent Assertiveness with Hiv Avoidance in a Four-Nation Sample. Adolescence; Roslyn Heights, 40(159), 525–532.
Raffaelli, M., & Ontai, L. L. (2004). Gender Socialization in Latino/a Families: Results from Two Retrospective Studies. Sex Roles, 50(5–6), 287–299. https://doi.org/10.1023/B:SERS.0000018886.58945.06
Rickert, V. I., Sanghvi, R., & Wiemann, C. M. (2002). Is Lack of Sexual Assertiveness among Adolescent and Young Adult Women a Cause for Concern? Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, 34(4), 178–183. https://doi.org/10.2307/3097727
Rodriquez, G., Johnson, S. W., & Combs, D. C. (2001). Significant Variables Associated with Assertiveness Among Hispanic College Women. Journal of Instructional Psychology; Milwaukee, Wis., 28(3). Retrieved from https://search.proquest.com/docview/1416363519?pq-origsite=gscholar
Sánchez-Bravo, C., Morales-Carmona, F., Carreño-Meléndez, J., & Martínez-Ramírez, S. (2005). Disfunción sexual femenina su relación con el rol de género y la asertividad. Perinatología y Reproducción Humana, 19(3–4), 152–160.
Santos-Iglesias, P., & Sierra, J. C. (2010). El papel de la asertividad sexual en la sexualidad humana: una revisión sistemática. International Journal of Clinical and Health Psychology, 10(3), 553–577.
Santos-Iglesias, P., & Sierra, J. C. (2012). Sexual Victimization among Spanish College Women and Risk Factors for Sexual Revictimization. Journal of Interpersonal Violence, 27(17), 3468–3485. https://doi.org/10.1177/0886260512445383
Santos-Iglesias, P., Sierra, J. C., & Vallejo-Medina, P. (2013). Predictors of Sexual Assertiveness: The Role of Sexual Desire, Arousal, Attitudes, and Partner Abuse. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 42(6), 1043–1052. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-012-9998-3
Santos-Iglesias, P., Vallejo-Medina, P., & Sierra, J. C. (2013). Equivalence and Standard Scores of the Hurlbert Index of Sexual Assertiveness Across Spanish Men and Women. Anales de Psicología / Annals of Psychology, 30(1), 232–237. https://doi.org/10.6018/analesps.30.1.143321
Sastre, F., Rosa, M. D. L., Ibanez, G. E., Whitt, E., Martin, S. S., & O’Connell, D. J. (2015). Condom use preferences among Latinos in Miami-Dade: emerging themes concerning men’s and women’s culturally-ascribed attitudes and behaviours. Culture, Health & Sexuality, 17(6), 667–681. https://doi.org/10.1080/13691058.2014.989266
Schry, A. R., & White, S. W. (2013). Sexual Assertiveness Mediates the Effect of Social Interaction Anxiety on Sexual Victimization Risk Among College Women. Behavior Therapy, 44(1), 125–136. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.beth.2012.09.001
Shulman, S., & Connolly, J. (2013). The Challenge of Romantic Relationships in Emerging Adulthood: Reconceptualization of the Field. Emerging Adulthood, 1(1), 27–39. https://doi.org/10.1177/2167696812467330
Simon, W., & Gagnon, J. H. (2003). Sexual Scripts: Origins, Influences and Changes. Qualitative Sociology, 26(4), 491–497. https://doi.org/10.1023/B:QUAS.0000005053.99846.e5
Tolman, D. L., Davis, B. R., & Bowman, C. P. (2016). “That’s Just How It Is”: A Gendered Analysis of Masculinity and Femininity Ideologies in Adolescent Girls’ and Boys’ Heterosexual Relationships. Journal of Adolescent Research, 31(1), 3–31. https://doi.org/10.1177/0743558415587325
Torres-Obregon, R., Onofre-Rodríguez, D. J., Sierra, J. C., Benavides-Torres, R. A., & Garza-Elizondo, M. E. (2017). Validación de la Sexual Assertiveness Scale en mujeres mexicanas. Suma Psicológica, 24(1), 34–41. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sumpsi.2017.01.001
Vannier, S. A., & O’Sullivan, L. F. (2011). Communicating Interest in Sex: Verbal and Nonverbal Initiation of Sexual Activity in Young Adults’ Romantic Dating Relationships. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 40(5), 961–969. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-010-9663-7
Yoshioka, M. (2000). Substantive Differences in the Assertiveness of Low-Income African American, Hispanic, and Caucasian Women. The Journal of Psychology, 134(3), 243–259. https://doi.org/10.1080/00223980009600865
Zerubavel, N., & Messman-Moore, T. L. (2013). Sexual Victimization, Fear of Sexual Powerlessness, and Cognitive Emotion Dysregulation as Barriers to Sexual Assertiveness in College Women. Violence Against Women, 19(12), 1518–1537. https://doi.org/10.1177/1077801213517566
This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial 4.0 International License.
Copyright (c) 2020 Silvia Lucía López Alvarado, Hanna Van Parys, Elena Jerves, Paul Enzlin